Monday, May 19, 2025

Grieving Parents Share Important Warning After Tragic Loss

As a result of their daughter’s death from chroming, the parents, who are heartbroken, have issued an urgent warning.

It has been stated by her parents that the image of their daughter after the occurrence will be with them for the rest of their lives.

Two parents from Australia have expressed their desire for significant changes after their daughter tragically lost her life while participating in a trend that is currently popular.

In the year 2023, Esra Haynes, who was only 13 years old at the time, went to a friend’s sleepover and participated in a practice known as “chroming.”

Since that time, her parents have taken to social media to advocate for change, believing that their daughter was influenced by the trend.

This trend involves inhaling potentially dangerous chemicals from a deodorant can to experience a brief but intense high.

In the course of attending a sleepover with a friend, the student, who was thirteen years old and attended Lilydale High School in Melbourne, experienced a cardiac arrest. After she was transported to the hospital, her parents were informed that she had sustained brain damage that could not be repaired.

Back in March of 2023, the incident took place, and her parents, Paul and Andrea Haynes, gave an interview to A Current Affair in which they discussed the measures that they would want to see taken by the deodorant industry and social media platforms in order to address the problem.

The phrase “for me it’s a pistol sitting on the shelf” was spoken by Paul.

Manufacturers must take responsibility by implementing crucial changes, whether by altering the formulation or modifying the propellants used.

Furthermore, he emphasized the need for stricter monitoring of social media platforms, as he believes Esra was introduced to the trend through online content.

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What is even more important is that they want to discuss the repercussions of chroming with families and children.

In his words, Paul stated, “Kids do not look beyond the next day; in all honesty, they do not.” To add insult to injury, they are unaware of the potential consequences.

Should Esra have been aware of the repercussions of her actions, she would never have done what she did.

Additionally, his wife stated, “However, the repercussions of this are that it is absolutely devastating.”

“We’ve got no child to bring home or anything.”

He came to the conclusion that “We need to talk about it.”

“Her name meant helper so that’s what we’re here to do.”

Speaking on the moment they were made aware that her daughter’s health was in danger, Andrea said: “It was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates.”

Paul explained, “We always knew her whereabouts and who she was spending time with.

“It was just a normal day, nothing seemed unusual.

“Receiving that phone call late at night was every parent’s worst nightmare—one we never imagined we’d have to face. But unfortunately, we did: ‘Come and get your daughter.’”

“We’ve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with.”

When they arrived, paramedics were desperately trying to save Esra’s life. They informed Andrea that she had been participating in a dangerous trend where individuals inhale chemicals from aerosol deodorant cans to experience a quick high.

This practice is especially common among teenagers, many of whom may not fully understand the serious and immediate risks involved.

Esra was found unresponsive and rushed to the hospital, where she was placed on life support.

After eight days, her parents were faced with the heartbreaking decision to turn off the machines, as doctors confirmed that her brain had suffered irreversible damage.

Paul continued by saying, “They are requesting that we bring our family and friends to say our final goodbyes to our daughter, who is 13 years old.”

When it came to dealing with a young soul, it was a very, very tough thing to do.

Esra’s older siblings, Imogen, Seth, and Charlie, who “cuddled her until the end,” were among those who were affected by the tragedy, which was terrible for the family.

It is unfortunate that this most recent occurrence is not the only one to occur as a result of anything similar.

In 2019, a child who was 16 years old met his death in New South Wales as a result of inhaling aerosols.

In 2021, a little girl from Queensland was diagnosed with brain impairment as a result of chroming.

Because of the rise in theft and the concerns regarding the purpose for which deodorant cans are being used, some shops have even been obliged to lock up their deodorant cans themselves.

Schools and regional education departments are also trying to teach kids about the dangers of chroming, as well as medical experts.